What is up with you and shallow people?
I know there's more to you than that, and there are people out there that are much better for you than the people you've chosen.
Your best friend, to be perfectly frank, is a ditz. She doesn't understand art, she has no taste in music, and her brain is turned off ninety percent of the time. And she's cruel, if you haven't noticed. Maybe she'd be less abrasive if she thought about what she said before hand. I don't think she understands the fact that other people are just as human as she is.
That mentioned, let's talk about your current love interest. He's foolish, crude, and uncultured. Every other thing he says is poorly-crafted humor, and the other half is meaningless. What on earth can you see in him?
What can these people give you that I can't give you? The ability to go through life without thinking about what's happening? A sunshine-and-rainbows look at the world?
Okay. That's your choice. I'll keep my cynical, calculating logic.
Don't wonder what happened when you find that
you've retained the psyche of a middle schooler
all the way through high school.
Try not to get hurt.
Good luck.
Comments (4)
aghhh. you need love advice.
first of all, sunshines and rainbows may not be what she is looking for. Sometimes you cant see what other people see. Its fact, beauty truly is in the eye of the beholder. What sounds ditzy to you may be intrigueing to her, And just because you are more open minded about your genre's of music doesnt make you a better person. To be able to pinpoint exactly what you like in something, is a beautiful thing to me.
Poorly crafted humor? Give the boy some props. Thats the beauty of humor. In my opinion, its better "poorly crafted" well. not so much poorly crafted, but its better witty and fresh instead of reused and overthought.
and to your question "What can these people give you that I cant?"...
Ive put alot of thought into that, because ive asked myself that question before. I cant explain it into words, at least not now.
Whats to understand about art? what defines taste in music? What makes people foolish? and whats wrong about being uncultured?
I've learned, what sparks love, what keeps you hanging on, may not be someones ability to THINK persay... but sometimes just a glance.
I thought for a really long time that love didn't truly exists, that you just stayed with someone you found tolerable, but that's not it at all. Sometimes you just meet people... that can change your mood immediately, without doing anything. Just being in the room with them is enough to drive you insane about them. Its not simple to find.
I've finally met someone who can still leave me hanging on even when we are fighting. Someone i love just being near. There is something in his personality that makes me crazy. No, I'm not "with" him, But whats the point in being commited at such a young age? If its ment, it will happen later.
So i know your thinking i'm wrong. Give it time. and, tell me why you find my 'sunshine and rainbows' look at the world wrong.
So i advice you to watch these two videos.
One on sunshine and rainbows.... and one on everything. (:
The first, is just for giggles. How immature of me.
But the second, has really impressed me, and has been my favorite song for a week or so now.
Why do you fancy someone who has a horrible taste in people, from what youve seen? What does that say to you, other than bad judgement, or immaturity?
As far as shallow goes, i think this blog could follow up under that catagory of your list of things.
But what do I know? What do any of us know? I mean, really.
@Love_Will_Forgive_Me - lol. to be perfectly frank, i was kicking myself about being "shallow" myself as i wrote and posted this.
i agree with a lot of what you've said, but i don't know how much it really matters. as you said, "What do any of us know?"
lol. the first video made me grin. and the second one perpetuated it.
thank you.
:)
@jnathanroy - Anytime. I'm a thinker, and relationships spark my interest. If you ever need love advice, you know to come my way.
I didnt know how you would react to the videos, but i'm glad you enjoyed them. (:
I hope all gets better for you, and your welcome, any time.
anything else left you'd like to discuss?
@Love_Will_Forgive_Me - Mhm. People are definitely one of the most interesting things around, and their interactions are often fascinating.
nothing comes to mind right now, but i'll think on it, to be sure.